Must Have Toys for Women
One Toy is Never Enough
There are just so many options when it comes to shopping for a sex toy! Shape, size, really strong or not strong enough, waterproof or submersible, battery operated or rechargeable, pink or purple, internal or external... the list goes on and on and when your shopping for your first toy or just a new toy this can make the whole experience really daunting. I think there are definitely some must have sex toys for women, so if your curious, searching, interested or at this point just lost, then hopefully this will help you make a decision!
Air Pulsation Toys
I have gone into great detail about suction toys, I have written quite a few "this one or that one" blogs about these toys and I recommend them above all other toys. Air Pulsation technology is by far my personal favorite, It is a completely different sensation than a vibrator. It sucks on the clitoris mimicking oral sex and does not over stimulate the clitoris so it's a lot easier to have multiple orgasms. I think every single woman needs an Air pulsation toy, if you don't have one, you are missing out on some seriously intense orgasms! My go to is still the Womanizer, they offer quite a few different styles but one of my favorites is the Womanizer Liberty because its small and compact and comes with a cap for travel and discretion.
Wands are probably the most common female toy, I think because no matter how updated and pretty they look now, they're still one of the very first vibrators ever made for women. In the 1960's-1970's the Hitachi Magic Wand made waves, it was widely talked about among Sex Educators. Wands are often very very powerful and look like body massagers. So if you need power and you want an orgasm fast then a Wand should definitely be in your collection!
Rabbit Vibrators are going to give you the best of both worlds. If you like dual stimulation then you should absolutely have a Rabbit. If you fall under the wide umbrella of women (70-75 percent) who cant have an orgasm from just penetration and need clitoral stimulation at the same time then a Rabbit is what you have been looking for. My absolute favorite Rabbit style vibrator is the Fun Factory Miss Bi, not only does it give you dual stimulation, it is also perfectly shaped to hit the G-spot simultaneously, it has a great handle that I think makes it easier to hit all of those erogenous zones perfectly! Most Rabbit style vibrators have a vaginal vibrator and a vibrator for the clitoris and it's as simple as that. But there are also Rabbits that come with anal beads, have a rotating internal vibrator, rock back and forth to stimulate the G-spot or thrust back and forth for deeper internal stimulation.
G-spot orgasms are definitely a lot different than other orgasms, they can be a lot more intense and last a lot longer than vaginal or clitoral orgasms. Unfortunately a lot of women still don't believe the G-spot exists but oh let me tell you it does and once you find it and experience a G-spot orgasm you'll be wondering how you went your whole life without having one! G-spot toys don't necessarily have to vibrate, there are a lot of G-spot Dildos that are curved at the tip to hit your G-spot. I personally prefer G-spot Vibrators though because for a lot of women you have to hit the G-spot quite hard in order to stimulate it properly and the vibration does give you that additional intensity. The Nu Sensuelle Baelii is perfect for a first time G-spot toy because it's not too thick and has a great curve at the tip to reach the G-spot!
If you are feeling a little adventurous and want to include your partner then Panty Vibes can be a lot of fun. Most underwear vibrators are little clitoral vibes that sit in your underwear and come with a remote for your partner to control. So plan a dinner date, bring your panty vibe and give your partner control from across the table. My personal favorite is the We-Vibe Moxie, it's a little more updated than your typical panty vibe. It has a little magnet that detaches from the vibrator itself so once you have it in the perfect spot you can put the magnet on the outside of your underwear and hold it in place. It also works with an app on your phone so if you want to be a little less conspicuous your partner can control it from their phone instead of a little remote! Trust me it will be a whole new level of fun you've never experienced.
Now like I said 70-75 percent of women cannot have an orgasm from only penetration, they need clitoral stimulation as well in order to climax. But if you like penetration by itself or penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time, I think a dildo should be in your collection. Most dildos have a suction cup at the base made to use with a harness or made to suction onto a flat surface, like a shower wall or a chair so that you can back up onto it on your shower wall or straddle it on a chair. Whats nice about a dildo with a suction cup is if your straddling it you usually have a hand or two free for clitoral or nipple stimulation. I love to recommend the Avant Dildos because they have a great suction cup that stays in place and they're made of a premium silicone that is really flexible and soft and has a firm core!
Written by Sonia
Manager and Sex Educator at Intimates Boutique
Have been Mgr of Intimates Boutique for 7 years. I am certified in sexual education and sex toy expert. Sharing my knowledge is one of my biggest passions. Hope you enjoy the information.
- Sonia Williams