Fetish Sex Toys

What is a Fetish?

A fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that's not typically sexual, such as shoes or feet. Not to be confused with a kink. For most people, a fetish has to be present for a person to feel sexual gratification, whereas a kink doesn't have to be there, but it is nice to have.

Nowadays, these two terms are often used interchangeably. Still, traditionally, a sexualized kink refers to a playful usage of sexual concepts that are overt, accentuated, and/or unambiguously expressive of sexuality. A sexualized fetish is traditionally considered an object or situation of interest that causes sexual arousal. There is sometimes an implied notion that a kink is something done for casual fun, while a fetish would indicate a form of requirement for sexual arousal.

How do I start incorporating Fetish and Bondage into my sex life?

One of the best ways to start introducing things to your partner is with communication. Bring it up in a conversation with your partner. Maybe you can stop by an adult store on your way home and pick up a surprise like a pair of cuffs or blindfold to see how they react. 

Fetishes can play an essential role in an individual's journey into kink.

Exploring your fetishes can vastly enhance your enjoyment of kinky play. It is, therefore, worth giving them some thought to see whether you or your partner have any of your own. This may be as simple as "really" liking specific fabrics or "really" wanting to be spanked. Your fetishes will provide your playmate with additional tools to help enrich your kinky experiences together.

Now the most apparent fetish might be a man loving the look of different high heels on a woman, but have you considered that a woman may also get super excited by simply seeing a sexy surfer guy in flip flops? The point is that it is essential to try to look at any given fetish from different angles.

Fetishes can therefore be more varied and less noticeable than you think. Take yourself outside of what you think of as typical fetishes and work out the nuances of things that get you excited. Watching your partner eat and play strawberries and cream might do the trick.

What are some of the best products to help start your journey?

I always suggest people start with simple items like velcro cuffs and blindfolds. Both items are considered easy to use and aren't 'scary' like some other fetish toys. 

Are you looking for something passed those? Delve into some sensation play. Try a paraffin wax drip candle or even a feather tickler. 

Do you want something more advanced? A spreader bar, hogtie, or flogger might be more your speed!

Are you an expert?? An electro-stim toy might be more your speed.

Are Fetish toys not your cup of tea? Check out our collection page to explore more!