Buying your First Male Masturbator

Buying your First Male Masturbator

What Type of Male Toy Should I pick

Male Sex Toys have come a long way in the last few years. Up to five or so years ago, using your hand with lube was still the best way for male pleasure. Not anymore! There are a variety of items like Strokers, Fleshlights, Tenga Flipholes, Lifelike and Electric Masturbators. These items vary in price and some can be worked into couples play. Yes, that’s correct. Male sex toys can also be used as a add on when doing oral or even add a partner without the hassle of actually having a real person there. Below we will go through the types of male toys and what their main functions are and how they work into sex play. 

Strokers are Versatile and Fun

Strokers are the most economical of all the male toys We looked at. These little beauties generally size wise run between 1 inch and 5 inches in length. Not all but most of these type of toys are open ended. Which helps satisfy most men, no matter there size. Strokers come in many materials and different textures on the inside. Helping you change the feeling of the toy simply by choosing a new pattern. Another great thing about strokers? They can be used as an oral assist toy by your partners. Taking one of the greatest experiences in life and making it even better. Shop appropriately for the right length and patterns. This can be a fun way to shop together for Sex stuff. A great way to connect and share pleasure as a couple.



Fleshlights changed Male Masturbation



Up to 10 years ago the male sex toy industry was not very good and needed to think out of the box when it came to male pleasure. What is the fleshlight? It is a male toy with an outside shell that is shaped like a flashlight. Why did this change the male sex toy industry. Because of the outer shell it helped separate the whole hand to penis feeling. In other words, because it wasn't your hand doing the work. It felt like someone was actually riding the penis. Almost like you had your hand on top of someones head, pushing them up and down the penis. This toy was the standard but as new materials, shapes and technology come into play, male masturbation just gets better and better.



New Masturbators with Pressure Points

Some of the upgrades to the cylinder style toys that have taken place in the last 4 years have been adding pressure pads to the outside of the toy. What does this do? The inside of these types of toys are all about the in patterns and configuration. The pressure pads enable you to add pressure to the top, bottom or all of the penis. Why is this good. Applying pressure at the right time can help kick the orgasm up a notch. I have used this type of toy and was able to stay right on the edge which enabled a bigger orgasm. As men we sometime struggle to have longer orgasms, like woman are able to. The toys with pressure pads can help with this. The Tenga Fliphole and Tenga Orb are our 2 favorites of this kind of toy. the Main Squeeze by Doc Johnson is great as well.




High Tech Male Sex Toys

Now that Porn Sites and Porn VR Sites are effecting what Male Sex Toys will be like in the future. Tech is being built into a lot of the new male masturbators with some pretty amazing results. Within the last couple of years companies like Kiiroo and Lovense  have created toys that the female counterpart reacts to the way the toy is being used by Their partner. How cool is that! Wait, that’s not even some of the neatest stuff. You can now Bluetooth with your computer and the toys will match what is taking place on the screen. The Fleshlight Launch also uses this Technology but you will have to purchase a certain type of Fleshlight to use it. It has become so popular that Lelo, one of the tech leaders in the adult toy industry has come out with the F1 Developers Kit Male sex toy. If you know how to code, you can develope your own patterns and even make it compatible with your favorite Virtual Reality Site so it can match what is going on in the video. Excited to see how this develops as time goes. The Kiiroo and the Lovense Max 2 has some of these cool things built in as well.


Toys built to Help with ED

There is a new wave of male adult toys that are built for pleasure, but do focus on a part of the penis where most of the nerve endings are located. Because of this type of Stimulation to the perfect spot. There have been clinical trials that support that these toys will help with Erectile Dysfunction. The first of these toys was made by Hot Octupus and had a Thumper right where the frenulum is located. Since this location, has the most nerve endings on the Penis. It has had great results. It also is something you can use when performing felatio. It has been found to be very effective, even when erections are sometimes a struggle. Other great toys in this category are the Fun Factory Manta and The Man Wand. These focus non the Frenulum as well. And are both extremely pleasurable. The We Vibe Wand has a similar male attachment but can also please the ladies.





With all the great male toys on the market now, we suggest you try one of each type to you find the one you want. The Lelo F1 is the future but we still think the squeezable toys like the Tenga Flip Hole are some of the best feeling and will definitely please you. The new ED related sex toys are fun as well, plus they may even help with getting the erection. If you can get a male sex toy that can help get an erection and pleasure you. Now that's the best of both worlds. We hope you enjoyed the blog. Hope to see you soon.






Written by Tim Sizemore

Owner, Operator and Sex Educator at Intimates Boutique

Have been owner of Intimates Boutique for 20 years. I am certified in sexual education and sex toy expert. Sharing my knowledge is one of my biggest passions. Hope you enjoy the information.



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