Strap-Ons have been used for years to spice up sex lives, used for solo play, anal fun, enhancing traditional penetrative sex or as a main appendage for lesbian couples. No matter which way you use them they can become boring at times but there are plenty of ways to spice up your strap-on!
Super Sensations:
The easiest, most effective trick I've been using for years when it comes to spicing up my strap-on is pulling out my favorite vibrating cock ring and sliding it on my favorite dildo. I tend to use a strong, deep vibrating ring like the Vedo Roq or Vedo Frisky Bunny because they both have a clitoral stimulator on the tip of the cock ring, which adds additional enhancement!! Keeping in mind 70% of women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, using a cock ring with these features is a huge bonus. Using a rechargeable vibrating cock ring like the Roq, you'll be able to feel strong vibrations throughout the whole dildo, even the tip! This is a great tip for solo play, when you need a little more stimulation, but its also a great way to spice up sex with your partner, if you use a thinner harness, like the Lux Fetish Strap-on Harness, or wear a boxer harness, the giving partner will also be able to feel the vibrations during sex, ensuring both partners receive stimulation. I've found this to be a great alternative to ensure my partner gets the stimulation she desires when placing a bullet in the pocket of the harness is too intense and strong for her liking. Another great hack is buying one of our hollow dildos and inserting a larger vibrator like the Vedo Bam, which will add vibrations to the dildo, but the difference with this versus adding a cock ring is the vibrations are intensified thru the whole dildo, the vibrations won't be as intensified at the tip as much as it will with a cock ring, and the partner wearing the strap-on will feel it more intensely.
If you already have toys, dig in your toy chest and pull out any wearable vibrators like the Eva, We-Vibe Sync, or Unite for some play time! If the partner wearing the strap-on dildo is female, she can wear one of these wearable vibrators underneath the harness of her choice and have mind-blowing orgasms. This tip I actually read on a lesbian lifestyle blog that said that while the vibrations assist physically in achieving orgasm, the visual stimulation of receiving a blowjob to the dildo, and the physical/ visual stimulation of penetrating your partner with said dildo actually can increase the level of intimacy of sex and actually intensifies the sensation of orgasm. You can double up on sensation and have the receiving partner also wear a vibrator! If you are a male- female partnership using a strap-on for dual-penetration, pegging or using a hollowed dildo to assist with erectile dysfunction you aren't left out! You can double up on the cock rings to add sensation, with the male wearing a vibrating cock ring, less intense than the cock ring on the dildo.
Oral Overload:
Strap-on's are a fun sex toy for couples yet couples tend to complain about the lack of oral sex incorporated into their sex sessions, or that they don't know how to incorporate their toy in their session yet they don't realize that you can very well have enjoyable oral sex using a dildo! I know your first reaction might be that you're only gonna taste the plastic material of the dildo or what's the point in giving a blow job to a piece of plastic, but there is a lot more to the imagination than that! A main key of being aroused is being visually stimulated, and oh boy is visual stimulation important! Many people can get even more aroused watching their partner give them oral, whether its a penis or a strap-on appendage! When my partner and I include a strap-on in our sexcapades, we tend to use it as a finishing piece to oral sex, and a prelude to penetrative sex using the strap-on and its highly enjoyable for both of us! One of my must-haves for oral is GoodHead Oral Delight Gel (the mint and watermelon flavors are AMAZING!!), when using this gel you'll instantly forget you're using a dildo because the strong flavors overpower the taste of plastic you'd get from the dildo alone. When deep-throating is a desire for the night I'll switch it up and grab the GoodHead Deep Throat Spray, as it has a stronger numbing agent in it making it a little easier to perform the task at hand, with any dildo of choice, regardless of size, yet it still has the tastefully powerful flavor of the Goodhead gel, making it taste amazing! Sex is never just about one of the partners and this is no exception! Participating in oral Sex using a dildo isn't just about visual stimulation for the partner wearing the strap-on, many people find it satisfying to give blow-jobs and hand-jobs respectively, and performing these tasks on a dildo versus a penis is no less satisfying. There's also a wide variety of water-based flavored lubricants that could be used as a taste enhancer. For example, the System Jo Flavored Water-based Lubricants are great, toy-safe options to use for oral sex. Using any flavor enhancement will allow for better oral, just remember to clean your dildos after sex, and ensuring that whichever flavor enhancer you chose to use is a water based substance.
The imagination is endless when it comes to spicing up sex, and I hope I've gotten the ball is rolling for many of you. Next time you go pull out your favorite strap-on, think about trying something new, fun and exciting!