The G-spot is like a mythical creature to some women, believe it or not a lot of women actually think the G-spot does not exist but boy let me tell you it does! The G-spot is like a magic button inside the vagina and when stimulated properly can give you one explosive orgasm.
Trying to find your G-spot:
Insert your pointer and middle finger in your vagina and curl your fingers into a come hither motion with your fingers facing towards your stomach. The G-spot is located about knuckle deep inside the vagina. It is easier to find the G-spot after you have already had an orgasm because the vaginal muscles will loosen and expose the G-spot better. You will know you have found the G-spot when you feel a bumpy texture, the vaginal walls are smooth and the G-spot feels bumpy and rough like a raisin or an orange peel.
Stimulating the G-spot on your own:
Try having a clitoral orgasm first and then you can insert their fingers inside the vagina and stimulate the G-spot by moving your fingers in a come hither motion. For a lot of women you have to hit the G-spot pretty hard to stimulate it to the point of orgasm, a light touch is usually not enough to bring the G-spot to an orgasm. It is slightly more difficult to stimulate the G-spot on your own or hit the G-spot with the right intensity especially depending on how long your torso is, how long your fingers are or if you have a tilted uterus. That is why for some women it is easier to stimulate your G-spot with a toy instead of using your fingers.
Using G-spot designed Toys:
If your are shopping for a G-spot toy you will notice that almost all of them are curved at the end to hit the G-spot perfectly. Some of them are more rounded while others have more of a flat surface or are more bulbous at the tip.These are a few of my favorite G-spot toys and why I recommend them over others.
The Fun Factory Miss Bi:
Okay I know this toy is featured in quite a few of my blogs but seriously I have been doing this for 7 years and this is by far one of my favorite toys. It is a Rabbit style toy because it has a part for internal stimulation and a part for clitoral stimulation at the same time... but the length of the internal vibrator is short and it curves upward and the Miss Bi by Fun Factory hits the G-spot perfectly! This was one of my first Rabbit toys I ever tried and still to this day my absolute favorite. If you are simulating the G-spot on your own this is my go to because of the handle, it has a hole through the middle so that while your using the toy you can hold it easier and rock it perfectly against your G-spot. This brand also comes with a 2 year warranty, is completely submersible for those ladies who enjoy a little bath time and is made of 100% medical grade body safe silicone so it does not absorb any bacteria and rechargeable.
Pillow Talk Sassy G-spot Vibrator:
Unlike the Miss Bi, the Pillow Talk Sassy is a little bit longer in length which I find perfect if your using the toy by yourself and you have a longer torso, a belly, your pregnant or like me you have short arms. This toy only has one button which makes it a lot easier to use so your not messing with 3 different buttons at once trying to turn it up but accidentally turn it off. This G-spot toy is a little more bulbous at the tip and is round which for some women is more preferable to a flat tip or a more pointed tip. The Sassy is also flexible and has a deep rumbly vibration which is ideal for G-spot stimulation, the G-spot usually requires a firm and intense vibration to bring you to Orgasm. This beauty is also made of 100% body safe Silicone and rechargeable but it is unfortunately not waterproof.
The Fun Factory Stronic G:
This toy is in a category all on it's own!! The Stronic G is not a vibrator, it's an oscillator which means that it pulses back and forth on its own! I know I know, then why do we need men right? I personally think this toy is ingenious, it has a flat tip vs a rounded tip which I found did not make that much of a difference in terms of stimulating my G-spot. What I really loved about this toy was that I basically had to do no work at all and who doesn't love that? How you may ask? Well basically because this toy moves back and forth, when you insert the toy it penetrates you on its own instead of you having to manually penetrate yourself. It is a heavier toy too which can create a feeling of fullness and weight on the G-spot which can be very pleasurable. It is made out of silicone so I highly recommend using a Hybrid or a Water Based lubricant when using this toy as well as with the Miss Bi and the Sassy.
If you have never explored this mysterious part of your body, I cannot recommend it enough. The G-spot can provide a much more intense orgasm than one you would receive from internal or clitoral stimulation. If you are stimulating your G-spot for the first time and get the sensation that you have to pee then don't worry you've hit the spot!!