Let's Learn about Anal Training
Small or Big Butt Plugs?
Which is better for anal training? There are 2 schools of thought here, one being that using a size that is comfortable will help you relax. Because anal play is all about relaxing. The more you relax the more you can handle. Ultimately your trying to get to the point you can handle your partners penis. The other idea is to buy a medium to large butt plug and push your limits. This works for those whom really want to feel the fullness of the toy in there butt. Pressure feels good to the inner sphincter while vibration stimulates the outer sphincter more.
Maybe a Anal Training Kit
Anal training kits are sets of multiple size butt plugs or smaller sized dildos. This is a way to ease into what sizes may be the most comfortable ans stimulating for your personal taste. We always suggest starting with the smallest and use it while you perform other sex acts like oral, intercourse or even bondage. Using these toys while playing helps with not focusing on the butt part. Have fun with it and learn what your body likes.
Is a Small Dildo Better than a Butt Plug
Are butt plugs better than using a dildo? That depends on what your goals are. The great thing about plugs are the fact you can insert, leave them in and then continue to other fun sex acts. They just tuck inside and stay out of the way. Even pulling them in and out while doing oral is a way to get used to the sensation of anal penetration. Dildos are best if your trying to advance on to anal intercourse. Start with a smaller dildo and work your way up to one closer to your lovers size. So you are training your sphincter to relax.
You just can't use enough lube!! Lube is always up to personal preference to which kind you may prefer? For anal toys and anal play we always suggest either a hybrid or a silicone lube. Hybrids have the best of both words, slickness and easy to clean up after sex ply. Silicone provide the most slipperiness but you must shower to remove completely. This is great for places where there is no natural lubrication like the anus. Silicone is not silicone toy friendly. So when doing anal play don't hold back on the lube!
Anal training kits are a fantastic way to experiment with anal play. Multiple sizes for experiment and progress with. A kit can help you prepare for future anal sex fun. So go ahead and start your training today. Anal sex can be both fun and a bit taboo which adds to the fun. Don't forget the lube. It can only make the sex best whether with anal kits or just your partner.
Written by Tim Sizemore
Owner, Operator and Sex Educator at Intimates Boutique
Have been owner of Intimates Boutique for 20 years. I am certified in sexual education and sex toy expert. Sharing my knowledge is one of my biggest passions. Hope you enjoy the information.
- Tim Sizemore