Let's shake it up a bit and start this blog out with some facts; Dear Short Guys, I promise you're not that short!
A 2015 study of 15,500 men found that the average erect penis size is 5.16 inches long (13.12 cm). And the average penis circumference (aka “girth”) is 4.59 inches (9.31 cm). Of course, there are guys who lie at the extremes of both ends of this scale. Everyone is different, and that’s awesome! But what’s really interesting about the average penis size is how many men fall within an inch of the range of “normal penis size." A lot of myths and stereotypes link penis size to race, hand size, or even shoe size. But there just aren’t enough credible studies to back up any of these claims. Most guys have a penis that’s within an inch of the average size (which is about 5 inches). So stop freaking out about your penis size!
Large penises really aren’t all that common anyways. According to legendary sexual health researcher, Alfred Kinsey, extremely large penises (+7-8 inches) are “exceedingly rare.” In fact, the original Kinsey penis-size survey found that only:
- 1% of men have a penis between 7-8 inches
- 7 in 1000 guys (0.7%) have a 9-inch penis
- and 0.1% of guys have a penis larger than 9 inches. (That’s 1 in 1000)
In this blog, we're going to be talking about some sure fire positions that really help you get deep! No matter where you are on the penis spectrum, some of these can really help you spice up the moves you already know or inspire some new tricks!
Positions For Deeper Penetration
Deep Impact - For this position, get on your side, lift a leg up, and have him straddle your leg, entering from a kneeling position. He may find spots you didn't know you had, and if he doesn't, squirt a little dollop of lube on his fingers so he can cup his hand over your clit, giving you a long smooth rub with every thrust. Grab a smaller clitoral toy and have him play with you as he thrusts.
Rolling in the Deep - If you haven't already discovered this way to take missionary much, much deeper, give this trick a try. Put a pillow, or Liberator, under your bum to raise your hips up and wrap your legs over his shoulders. This is pretty damn glorious on its own, but if he holds onto your legs and pushes them back toward your head (only slightly, you're not a contortionist here) he will hit places deep on the top of your vaginal wall (or your G-spot) that feel out of this world amazing!
The Sandwich - To perform the Sandwich, just lie down on your back and let your guy penetrate while he’s on top as he normally would when doing Missionary. But instead of just resting your legs on the bed like in the Missionary position, bring them towards yourself while keeping them open. Your man’s arms should usually be around your shoulders on the bed, but he is now going to lower them so that he can put one under each of your knees and help you to lift them upwards to change the angle that he’s penetrating you at.
Tired Doggie Style - This move is one of my favorites and one of the best moves for your G-spot! You lie face down with one or two pillows under your pelvis, so your butt tilts up. Your partner lies on top of you and enters you from behind with legs either between or outside of yours. Feel the difference between crossed legs and open legs, each gives a very different feel when he penetrates. You have little control, but it sure feels amazing!
At the End of the Day...
Truthfully, at the end of the day, all dicks are awesome and can do awesome things. The size of your junk doesn't define the knowledge you have to move that junk, so don't let your anxiety get the best of you! If your partner wants to try a bigger size, don't get discouraged! That's a great opportunity for you two to visit a store just like ours to pick out a bigger dildo or maybe try an extension! There are options out there for you, you just have to be open to trying them!