One of the key factors of sex is, you guessed it, the senses! In the bedroom, we use our sight, smell, hearing, taste, and touch to craft the ultimate sexual experience.
So let's go back to one of those senses: touch! Sexual experiences are all about touch and feeling (or lack of), making it important in the bedroom. But how can we improve our sense of touch? It isn't all about the way we touch one another but also the other things we come in contact with in the process, like textures and fabrics. Skin touches clothes, bedsheets, carpets, towels, and so many other things that we don't stop to consider concerning pleasure.
What is dry sex?
Let's start with the basics. Dry sex, what is it? Dry sex, also known as outercourse or frottage, is participating in a non-penetrative sexual act that involves humping and grinding. This can be with a partner where you are both (mostly) clothed or by yourself at home with a pillow.
Dry sex is also a lot more common than you would think! It is a common form of foreplay before the clothes come off. People of all genders and orientations also enjoy outercourse, so it's good for everyone to know about.
Improving Dry Sex
Now you know about dry sex and a little about what it entails, so how can we spice it up? Fabrics, of course! Whether it's something on your body or something nearby that you can use, they can help advance the mood and the sensations experienced by both partners.
Need some ideas and pointers for what to do? We got you!
Latex
Latex is the fabric that almost anyone can associate with sex. When latex comes to mind, people usually think about BDSM and something involving a lot of pain. It isn't just for your extra spicy endeavors; latex can serve as a new and exciting texture to experiment with in the bedroom.
Latex is smooth and shiny, especially when appropriately lubricated. It can also have a matte finish depending on what you're into. But the look of latex alone isn't the only reason people love it. The fabric is almost always skin-tight and will cling to anyone's body like a tight hug, increasing the sensory experience. With a tight fit, all the curves of the body are easily recognizable.
Satin (and Silk)
Smooth, glossy, sensual, satin. Satin is a soft and shiny fabric that is very similar to silk but much more cost-effective. The way that this textile drapes and forms around your body can leave a lot to the imagination, making it a must-have in your lingerie collection. The fabric's softness can increase skin sensation (especially in the nipples) by gently moving across it.
If you think that lingerie is the only place where satin and silk-like materials come in handy, you're sorely mistaken. Satin makes wonderful bedsheets as well, creating a new and pleasurable experience for anyone in your bed. First of all, they don't absorb any moisture, making sure that your mattress stays safe if things get out of hand. Sex can be slippery and wet, so let satin be your best friend. Another plus is that your skin won't stick to the fabric, which makes it easier to move around and play without any interference.
Wool
Wool is another sensory option for sex with its soft and fluffy qualities. Whether it's the sweater on your body or a blanket on the bed, it shouldn't be overlooked. Wool on the body can create new and exciting sensations with a light touch. Sexy can turn to sensual within minutes!
Jeans
The texture and feel of denim can create intense sensations during dry sex. When thinking about this fabric, one's mind doesn't automatically go to sex, and some people don't believe that the two belong together. I very much disagree.
The rough texture of jeans on the outside of clothes can be perfect for grinding to your heart's content. Being rougher, it's ideal for pleasure when your clothes stay on. The zipper of jeans can also be used to create new sensations during dry sex.
Corduroy
The holy grail of fabric for dry sex is corduroy. You're missing out if you have yet to hear about this one. Corduroy is a fabric that is woven into vertical ridges called wales. As you can imagine, they provide so much texture and leave much to explore. Grinding on corduroy is the dry sex tip that I always hear, so it just had to be included.
Leather
Leather isn't just for bikers; it's for people who want something fun and exciting in the bedroom. Whether you want it to have the feel of elegance or be hardcore, it's an excellent choice. Leather has a smooth yet rough texture, making it another perfect match for dry sex. It's also perfect for impact play, with many floggers and paddles made out of fake leather at your disposal. Let me get you started with some sexy leather pieces:
Lingerie and lace are the perfect pairing, but have you considered how they could be useful when grinding away in the bedroom? The look of lace is not only sexy but also has a texture that is great for additional stimulation. The different lace patterns and looks also means there is so much to choose from when considering what to buy. This fabric is also often attractive to people of any gender, so it's a great turn on!
Okay, okay, I know it isn't a fabric but feathers still deserve an honorable mention. Feather robes and toys are a great topic to mention when discussing materials. Some lingerie robes come with feathers for a sexy a playful look. Feathers are the perfect match for sensory play and dry sex because they can be used lightly on exposed skin. In-store we have some fabulous robes with feathers that are perfect for some new sensory experiences. There are also a ton of feather ticklers to choose from if wearing them is different from your vibe.
Conclusion
Don't let this blog curb your imagination, and there are so many more fabrics and possibilities waiting to be discovered by you. When you go clothes shopping again, maybe take a second to think about other ways you can use what you're buying. There are also so many ways to use this information to your benefit. For example, you may wear a specific fabric to non-verbally tell your partner that you are ready to have some fun with them later. If you haven't tried fabric yet, you should!
