Blowjob Tips
1. Know your comfort levels and take it slow
The adult film industry has left us with unrealistic expectations of our partner’s or our own sexual abilities. Just because you watched a girl deep throat a penis in a video and it looked “sexy”, doesn’t mean you’ll be able to do the same comfortably. And if you are unable to do the same, it does not make you any less adequate. It is sexy to be confident in what you do so definitely stick to your skills with confidence if that is where you feel comfortable!
2. Pay attention to body language
It’s very easy to gauge someone’s reaction to something during sex based off of their body language. When engaged in any type of sex act with your partner you can use little clues to know if they’re responding positively to what you’re doing. If your partner is thrusting his hips to meet you or putting his hands on the back of your head, those would examples of positive reactions. Listen for moaning or even look up at their face. If you feel like you may not be getting the reaction you want, try to change up your technique.
3. Remember there's more than just the shaft!
Theres so much more to giving a blow job than just focusing on the shaft of the penis. Spice up your technique by stimulating the head with kissing, licking, and light nibbling. Play with the testicles either with your hands or your mouth. You can use your thumb to stroke over the testicles, you can lightly tug down on them or you can use your mouth to suck/lick them.
4. Lube is friend not foe
Trust me when I say this- Lube makes EVERYTHING better! Using lubricant is not just for vaginal/anal intercourse. Using lubricant for oral can actually make the entire experience a lot easier for the giver and more pleasurable for the receiver. A lubed up penis is going to glide with ease and can even help you go a bit deeper than what you usually can do. If you deal with dry mouth, lube is your answer! Pro tip: if you don’t exactly LOVE giving blow jobs, using a flavored lubricant can make things a little more fun for you. Everyone loves a penis that tastes like apple, right?
5. Change up the location!
Step away from the typical blow job on the bed. Try changing it up and have your man sit on the couch so you can kneel in front of him. Want a spot that gives your partner the best view in the world? Kneel in front of a mirror with your back facing it and have your partner stand in front of you... he gets to watch you in the act with your booty on display!
Although these tips will have you becoming a Blow Pro in not time... the most important tip is to have fun and enjoy playing with your partner!
Blowjob Tips