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What Men can do to Last Longer in Bed?

What Men can do to Last Longer in Bed?

Tim Sizemore |

Is this a problem for most men?

A lot of men struggle with this problem in one form or another. Premature ejaculation has many forms. More than you can imagine. This can range from something as simple as "I wish he lasted longer in bed" to "he has an orgasm as soon as I touch him". All of these are forms of premature ejaculation and in most cases with patience and techniques can be fixed quite easily. In this blog we will talk about toys, sprays and other masturbation techniques to deal with these issues.


Causes of Premature Ejaculation

In the past, premature ejaculation was thought to be entirely psychological. However, it is now thought that some men (particularly those with lifelong premature ejaculation) have a chemical imbalance in the brain centres controlling this function (this is called a neurobiological cause). This can, in turn, lead to associated psychological problems, such as performance anxiety.

Acquired premature ejaculation can be caused by psychological factors such as:

  • depression or anxiety, particularly about performance
  • feeling anxious about rejection by a sexual partner
  • expecting failure
  • negative sexual experiences in childhood
  • religious beliefs
  • stress
  • problems within the relationship.

Some men develop acquired premature ejaculation because they have erectile dysfunction (are unable to get or keep an erection than enables them to have sex). When you struggle to keep the erection? You are so focused on the sensation. It makes you finish too soon. 

Can this impact your Relationship?

Of course it can. Especially if the female doesn't understand the causes and/or the reasons this may be happening. At some point if the female is not satisfied or she get frustrated by it? this could cause an issue for the future. A lot of couples have to make adjustments to compensate for finishing too quick. Like doing more oral or foreplay to make up for lack of intercourse due to Premature Ejaculation. Here are some ideas to help last longer.


Is there a pill I can Take?

There isn't a pill that directly helps with this problem. But there are Herbal Viagras we sell that help with the strength of your erection. The way this can help is confidence and a little blood flow. By having stronger erections as a man, you are not thinking about maintaining the erection. As well as when the penis is at maximum blood flow, there is a desensitization to the penis when it is at its hardest erection. This is one of the reasons pills like Viagra and Cialis are so popular. Pills won't work for everyone to fix premature ejaculation. But it could still be part of the plan of attack against the problem.


There are Lotions and Spays that Help?

There are an array of products like this specifically designed to help. Some that make sense and some that are just strange. The most commonly used product is Stud 100 and Dynamo. These are numbing sprays with around 10-13% lidocaine. When you have an erection, spray this on the tip. This will help if the problem is about getting past the beginnings of the fun. When sensitivity is the issue.These products are not palate friendly and can taste not very nice. Other heavily used products that has been around forever is China Brush and Indian God Lotion. Chine brush comes in a small bottle and is applied with a small brush. This does work differently than the numbing sprays in a sense. They create a slight burning sensation. Which will in turn desensitize the penis yet, she will be able to do oral even when this product is used. Has a slight honey taste. Using one of these desensitizing liquids with erection pills May be the combination that help you last longer.


How about a toy or a new masturbation technique

We have always felt the best way to fix this problem is sex and lots of it. The more you get used to the sensations of the mouth, hands and other great body parts. The Faster your body adjust and endurance should increase. The longer you should last. But sometimes, she may not want to have sex all the time. What to do? How about a male masturbation sex toy. There are male sex toys that are designed to help men last longer. The most popular is the Fleshlight Stamina toy. This toy has intense ridges to help keep constant pressure on the penis. Creating intense sensations that help build endurance, enabling you to not get so overwhelmed by the sensations of sex with a partner. The Main squeeze by Doc Johnson also has a model built for stamina. Another more natural way to help your premature ejaculation is Penis Training. Using techniques to help you control when you finish. This can also be really pleasurable. Which is part of the reason it works for some. PE is usually caused by over excitement and sexual anxiety. Bring the penis to an erection and right at the point of orgasm, DON'T Finish. Do this over and over and over, it will teach you at the point of orgasm to fight the sensation, to control it. When you do allow yourself to finish. Boom, the orgasm will be bigger than normal. This is something you can do with your partner as well. Plus she may like to watch you wait. A little sexual torture is fun sometimes.



We don't know that any particular idea is perfect for everyone. Put with some tools by your side to help figure out the problem is always a good idea. If you use any combination of these sprays, toys or techniques, this should help you move past these issues and on to a more rewarding sex life for you or your partner.




Written by Tim Sizemore

Owner, Operator and Sex Educator at Intimates Boutique

Have been owner of Intimates Boutique for 20 years. I am certified in sexual education and sex toy expert. Sharing my knowledge is one of my biggest passions. Hope you enjoy the information.