You can define sex with a partner in so many ways. As can vibrators — if it vibrates (or has a motor), it counts. No matter whom you partner with or how you have sex, if one or both of you enjoy extra stimulation from a vibrator, there's one out there for you.
Check out this list to find your new favorite sex toy with your partner!
We-Vibe Sync
One of the OGs of couples vibrators that work from mobile apps, the We-Vibe Sync 2 offers multiple forms of sensation. Insert it into the vulva for both clitoral and G-spot vibrations. Your partner will enjoy the stimulation, too, as long as they're pressed tightly against you. The Sync hugs the body, adding to your sexual pleasure without getting in the way.
If you want to have sex with a bit of space between you, use the We-Connect app to let your partner control the patterns and settings, no matter how far apart you are. You can create customized designs, let the stimulation to music, and save your "playlists." I love the app because I hate fumbling with remotes or buttons on the toy itself while in the moment, so if you have the same struggles, keep your phone next to you on the bed and slide the Sync button toward your desired intensity!
We-Vibe Chorus
Consider the We-Vibe Chorus the next generation after the Sync 2. It has many of the same features but with a slight upgrade and sleeker design. The Chorus is more flexible than the Sync 2, so it fits against your body more comfortably. It has ten built-in modes when you're just using the included remote, but if you connect it to the app, you have a variety of vibration intensities, patterns, and play styles to choose from! The vibrations become stronger as you squeeze your pelvic muscles (Kegels). When you relax your muscles, the stimulation eases up a bit.
Forto F-48 Perineum Ring
The Forto F-48 ring has it all - from powerful vibration, versatility, and even a sleek design, it's sure to impress from the first try. This toy can be used for clitoral and perineum stimulation, depending on how it's put on the shaft of the penis. This small rechargeable ring may not look much at first glance, but with ten different speeds that can certainly pack a punch, it's not one to bat an eye at! And the pleasure doesn't have to stay in the bedroom either - feel free to hop in the tub or shower with this toy and get a bit wet. For penis owners, while this is a toy you can enjoy with a partner, it's also great for solo sex! Turn the ring to lay against the perineum (or taint-whatever you call it, it's the skin between the anus and the scrotum!), and enjoy the heavy vibrations that'll quickly steer you towards an external prostate orgasm. No penetration is required!
b-Vibe Cinco Beads
Yes, anal toys make great solo sex toys, but they are also perfect for partnered sex. B-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads offer more stimulation and pleasure, no matter what sex you have together. Wear it yourself while you penetrate your partner. Wear it during mutual masturbation. Hand the remote to your partner and let them pick the setting. Slide it into your partner and then focus on the rest of their body. Anal toys offer so many ways to play. The Cinco Beads, in particular, have 15 different patterns with six vibration intensities, so if you love variety, this is a great choice! But why anal beads? The way anal beads are designed causes the muscle of the anus to stretch and contract similarly to how it naturally does during an orgasm. So when you or your partner is close, slowly take the beads out, and enjoy a new level of pleasure!
Strap U Evoke Vibrating Strapless Strap On
Love penetration as part of sex? Don't have a penis? That's what dildos are for! The Strap U Evoke Vibrating Strapless Strap On ensures both partners get what they crave. For the wearer, you get your penetrative fun with G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Grind away on the ribbed pad for more pleasure. Your partner gets what they want with silicone and the G or P-spot stimulation they crave. If your partner has a vulva and loves clitoral stimulation, try adding a vibrating penis ring or grab an external vibrator to hold against their clitoris! Personal tip: not all strapless strap-ons stay in place while in use. If you plan to use strapless strap-ons frequently, I highly recommend investing in a high-quality harness that opens on the back, such as the SpareParts harnesses! I own the Tomboii boxers, and they've been perfect for everything you can imagine - and have held up with frequent use, too!
Fun Factory Oh Yeah, Right There Kit
Who would we be if we didn't include toy kits? If mutual masturbation seems interesting to try out in the bedroom, or if you and your partner regularly enjoy dirty talk over video calls while away from each other, toy kits are the way to go. Nonetheless, both the Manta and the Volta that come in the Oh Yeah, Right There Kit are perfect for use on each other during sex, too! The Manta is a top-rated couples' toy that you can wrap around the shaft during oral or intercourse - the only downside is that it's not hands-free, but its vibration power speaks for itself. The Volta, however, is a fantastic fluttering clitoral toy that can be used during intercourse, depending on the position, since it's not too bulky. P.S. - The Volta recently won Best Fluttering Vibrator of 2023 in New York Times Magazine!
Femme Funn Dioni
Pick a finger vibrator, any finger vibrator. We picked the Femme Funn Dioni, but any type you choose will do the job. Put it on your finger, turn it on, and let your hands wander. You'll get more sensation, stimulation, and pleasure wherever you touch yourself or your partner. Leave it on their most sensitive spot until they're screaming in ecstasy. Tease their body with light touches. Do some combination of both. Your fingers will do the walking and talking, no matter what kind of sex you have together.
The Femme Funn Dioni, in particular, is highly rated due to its sizing and vibration intensity. Plus, it's waterproof, so you and your lover can enjoy some tantalizing vibes no matter where the wind takes you - even if that's for a cheeky dip in the pool! The Femme Funn Dioni comes in two sizes: Small for ring sizes 8.5 and smaller and Large for sizes 8.5 and up.
Conclusion
No matter what sex you enjoy with your partner — penis-in-vagina, anal sex, mutual masturbation, sex over Skype, or whatever else, there's a vibrator to make it even better. Talk to your partner about what you both enjoy, and look for the sex toy that will take your sexual pleasure to a whole new level! If you've never introduced sex toys into the bedroom before but want to, try showing your partner our Benefits of Bringing Sex Toys Into the Bedroom blog or taking some tips from it to try out for yourself!
