There are multiple ways to use G-spot massagers, depending on what kind of stimulation works best for you.
My best advice?
Experiment with your vibrator in a no-pressure situation — likely while you’re alone and definitely not when your partner is present and expecting you to climax in a timely way.
Depending on how adjustable your G-spot massager is, you may have options for intensity and vibe patterns so it’s a good idea to cycle through those before you begin, just to become familiar with how it all works.
Start slow and low before adding pressure, stronger vibes, or a more assertive pattern as needed — and don’t forget to use a quality water-based lube.
Many (if not most) G-spot vibrators are crafted from silicone, which will degrade when used with a silicone-based lubricant.
Remember, too, that you can use your vibrator on more than just your G-spot!
Some G-spotters, like the Hot Octopuss Kurve — which I personally reviewed (and loved!) — have a soft exterior that’s amazing for clitoral stimulation.
You can use a G-spot vibrator to stimulate the:
- Vulva and labia
- Clitoris
- Nipples
- Anus (externally)
- Labiocrural fold (where the outer labia and inner thighs meet)
- Frenulum (under the head of the penis)
- Perineum ( between the genitals and anus)
- Any other erogenous zones that turn you on
If you are using your G-spot vibrator to stimulate your anus, make sure to clean your toy before inserting it back inside your vagina or using it on any other area of your body.