On a first date? Maybe Not. But it is a great way to send a message that you are not your boring proper date. In a world where a swipe right leads to a sexual encounter, Why not bring a toy. Its already established that sex is on the table. For the man it takes a lot of pressure off when you can whip out a sex toy that makes her orgasm over and over. I would think she would like that too. Not all toys are meant to replace the man. Smaller sex toys can be used to kick things up a notch.
That's a good question. Men can be quite sensitive if they think they are not enough. We would always suggest a small bullet, something that isn't intimidating to the man. If she brings the sex toy then she should suggest she use it on him first. A great idea is to use on his testicles while she does oral. If it is his first time? It might just turn in to a play toy advocate without any resistance. Then when she request the toy for her, he shouldn't have any objections.
One sex toy that is actually be fun for both the man and the women are Love Rings or Vibrating cock rings. These vibrators are worn by the man but enjoyed by both. These work particularly well when the girl is on top riding the man. These rings come in many shapes and sizes, and the rechargeable love rings can be quite powerful. Another added benefit is when worn by the male they can excite but also with prolonged use can actually desensitize the man just enough, some helping with longer lasting sex. who doesn't want better sex?
If vibrators are not her or his thing then we suggest maybe bringing some light bondage. A blindfold and some cuffs can really make things more interesting without being too much too soon. Blindfolds can heighten the senses and make even the simplest of sex acts better than you could imagine. For some the excitement of being controlled can be a sex act all to itself. Just put a blindfold on him or her and do oral when either person doesn't know it is happening. That's what is so fun about light bondage. Just use your imagination.
Whether its sex toys or light bondage? We would encourage everyone to experiment and take some chances in the bedroom. I mean, you only live once and life is too short not to live it to the fullest. So before you go out on your next Tinder date or with someone you already know. Take a little trip to your local adult store and shop together. It's a whole new world out there. You won't regret it.
Have been owner of Intimates Boutique for 20 years. I am certified in sexual education and sex toy expert. Sharing my knowledge is one of my biggest passions. Hope you enjoy the information.
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How about video sex while you skype? This is actually really really fun but your still not able to do things to each other physically, but it is super fun to watch your partner have an orgasm. With all that said let us introduce you to Max( Male Sex Toy) & Meet Nora ( Female Rabbit Counterpart). What makes Max and Nora the perfect couple. They connect via a phone App that enables the 2 sex toys to interact with each other even if your on opposite sides of the world. I sure you are asking how they interact. its really super cool. Max is a Male Masturbation sextoy that has air bladders, a fleshlike opening with textured inside to give you the feel of being in a real vagina. If you have enough imagination. Her vagina. How Max works is when the your lady friend is using NORA and she uses her vaginal walls to to squeeze the insertable in of the vibrator. On the MAX side the air bladders blow up to simulate the squeezing she is doing from where ever she is. Now when the max is using Max and he begins to stroke it faster and faster. At this time the Nora starts to vibrate faster and faster and the G spot swirl goes fast and faster til Yahoooo, Both of you are exploding into each others virtual sex parts. Tes, I did go a little over the top but you get the idea. mutual pleasure and mutual fun.
Now lets go into more details about these individual toys. Whats is great about both Nora and Max is they are great sex toys all on there own. Nora is super quiet with a good solid vibration. It runs for about 1.5 hour of continual play. Nora also uses the some of the highest grade silicone on the market and is also waterproof. It is a rechargeable operated rabbit sex toy that vibrates in the clitoral area. With great movement at the GSpot this toy will deliver on sexual pleasure whether alone or when teaming up with Max.
Now Max may be a male sex toy but it the most advanced we have ever seen. looks like the Tenga Fliphole than a traditional Fleshlight. The air bladders in this toy makes it a very unique experience. The vibration is nice and the fact it can interact with the control's on your phone makes this male toy a win.
We recommend these great toys a fantastic way to share sexual experiences even when in a long distance relationship.
We would like to introduce Americas favorite couples Max and Nora
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The G-spot, also called the Gräfenberg spot (after German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg), is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 2–3 inches up the front vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.
The G-spot orgasm is much more unique than that of a clitoral or internal orgasm. This is due to the fact that the prostate has a different nerve than the clitoris does making the sensation of the orgasm much different. Most women agree that a G-spot orgasm is deep and long lasting. What's not to like about that?
There is still much speculation about this. Many Sexperts say, "Yes, the G-spot does exist...but each woman is different." For some woman, a G-spot orgasm gives mind blowing orgasms while other woman may feel nothing. Just like some woman are able to have an orgasm through penetration only and some woman need the assistance of clitoral stimulation.
If your feeling brave there is nothing wrong with doing a little exploring on your own with a simple tool, your fingers! If you lay on your back and insert your fingers facing towards the ceiling, it makes finding the G-spot much easier. About 2-3 inches in the vagina there is a rough knobby patch of tissue, the texture will feel much different than the smooth skin around it. Now a trick I have found very useful among many women is that it is much easier to find the G-spot after you have already had an orgasm. If you have tried to find the g-spot with your fingers and don't feel that rough patch of skin then try to have an orgasm. After you have had an orgasm try again, post orgasm actually makes the vaginal muscles loosen up and the G-spot more accessible.
If you still feel nothing, don't worry. You are not abnormal if you don't get turned on by having the G-spot touched. It's very similar to some women having extremely sensitive nipples while others do not. Try not to focus on the parts of the body you don't feel stimulation but rather on the parts that you do.
Going solo can always be fun, but there other fun ways to stimulate the G-spot! Just like anything else, there is always a learning curve to something new. Some men know how to hit the G-spot but if he doesn't, now that you know where it is, you can guide him. Sometimes different positions allow for easier access to the G-spot. For example, try putting a pillow under your back side; it will elevate your back slightly and allow him a better angle to find your sweet spot. You can also try "doggy style" on your hands and knees which allows for better penetration during sex, so you can imagine it does the same for G-spot stimulation. Have your partner insert his pointer and middle finger in and crook his fingers upward and start moving his fingers in a "come hither" motion. A lot of women might not feel a lot of pleasure if the G-spot is just simply being stroked, sometimes in order to arouse the G-spot you have to more vigorously stroke it. The best way to describe how you know when your G-spot is being stimulated is if you feel like you might have to urinate, but don't worry its a natural feeling when stimulating this area.
Toys are a favorite among many people for G-spot play. There are tons of different types of G-spot toys out there. Here are some of our favorites.
The whole Svakom line is beautiful, but this one in general takes the cake. The Amy is small in size, but don't let that fool you. The ergonomic shape of this vibrator is perfect for fitting the natural contours of the vagina, and the flat surface provides direct G-spot stimulation. The Amy vibrator is made from 100% pure silicone, is waterproof and rechargeable! What more could you ask for?
We Vibe is notably one of the most innovative toy companies on the market, always coming out with toys that wow! The We Vibe Rave is no exception. The Rave has a very different type of vibration from other vibrators, it has a very deep vibration, more of a rumble then a rattle. Curved perfectly for easy handling and direct g-spot stimulation. Press down gently on the handle when inserted to add the perfect amount of pressure. The We Vibe Rave is also APP compatible. Download the free We Connect app on your smartphone to get more Rave features. As if that were not enough you can also choose between ten preset vibration patterns or create your own with the We Connect app. The Rave comes with a year warranty, is rechargeable and made of medical grade silicone. What are you waiting for?
I guess the only question left to ask here is,"To G-spot or not to G-spot?"
Happy Exploring!!
Male enhancements are most commonly in pill form, a sort of "herbal Viagra", but they also come in a cream and spray form. These products are usually used to last longer and increase size and stamina. We do not recommend these pills if you suffer from heart problems or are on a blood thinner. Desensitizing sprays help with premature ejaculation, are usually applied some time before intercourse and are not generally intended to use if oral will be performed. However, there are creams for men that will heighten sensation and are flavored.
One More Knight is an herbal supplement for men to help increase stamina, size, and time. Take one capsule 20 minutes before sex to help energy, libido and sexual performance!
Stud100 is designed to help men delay ejaculation and prolong the pleasures of sex, it has a fast acting Lidocaine base that is safe and easy to use.
Kamasutra Pleasure Balm® Sensations is a kissable, water-based body gel for romantic play. Formulated to provide a refreshing tingling sensation on the skin. Not a flavored lubricant, Pleasure Balm® is a foreplay gel designed to create sensation and awaken all your pleasure.
Add length and girth with a penis extender. Penis extenders are sleeves that slip over your member and instantly add inches and thickness. There are many variations; some add girth and length, some with ribs and textures, and some with bullet vibrators attached.
Female enhancements usually work by making the nipples, clitoris or the G-spot extra sensitive. These products come in a few forms, but all offer sensations like buzzing, tingling, cooling, warming, or a combination. There are also sexual enhancement pills, serums to lift libido, vaginal tightening creams, and Kegel balls to help strengthen your pelvic muscles.
JO Volt 9v is an all natural clitoral serum with a blend of proprietary arousal botanicals that delivers an electric tingling sensation to take satisfaction to a whole new level. JO Volt is a safe, all-natural clitoral enhancement gel that tingles on contact to increase sensation and enhance satisfaction. The safe all natural formula is pH balanced and free of hormones, parabens, and L-arginine. For more intensity try JO Volt 12v.
JO Warm and Buzzy is a dual acting topical stimulant. This water-based cream provides a thrilling combination of warming AND buzzing sensations. Apply a little during foreplay, toy play or solo-play for heightened pleasure. A little goes a long way.
ON Ice for Her is our best selling cooling clitoral stimulation oil. ON Ice uses a proprietary blend of essential oils and herbal extracts for a safe and natural cooling and buzzing effect on women. It naturally stimulates the clitoris to boost arousal for optimal pleasure. It also helps with the release of natural lubrication from the vaginal walls. Just 1-2 drops can make all the difference.
Intimates Organics' Discover G-Spot Gel contains a blend of certified organic extracts, Japanese peppermint oil blended with L-Arginine. This unique formula increases the size and the sensitivity of the G-Spot making it easy to find.
Feel brand new with China Shrink Cream! Simply apply the cream around the vaginal area, and in five minutes the muscle-tightening agent in the cream will not only tighten your vagina for a more intense feeling during intercourse for both you and your partner, but will also increase your overall sensitivity for new levels of amazing stimulation!
Perk up and experience stimulating new sensations with JO Nipple Plumper. This natural cream uses a dual-action formula to immediately heighten sensitivity of nipples during intimate play and over time enhances aesthetic appearance with consistent use.
The male G-spot isn’t that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back and with your legs elevated is generally considered to be the most comfortable position. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.
Once you’ve made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Most men enjoy having their perineum stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you’re comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.
Remember that comfort is important – have a nice hot shower first – not only will you feel better clean, it also should help you to relax! If you’d like to take that one step further, try using an enema.
Once you’re ready for p spot stimulation, there are a number of methods you can use, if you are a first timer – keep things simple; a finger will be sufficient for beginners. Regardless, you’ll want a good supply of lubrication on hand, and you’ll want the type specifically created for anal play. We recommend Pjur Original Silicone Glide.
It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. As you prepare to stimulate your P-spot, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. Change it up a little, and keep experimenting until you find what works for you. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the orgasm is worth it! It’s also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and that’s perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.
Remember, enjoying anal stimulation doesn’t mean that you're gay; it can give you great orgasms!
We’ve already mentioned this one, but you shouldn’t limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms for their partner can be so powerful. If you’d like to try something different, while she stimulates your prostate, have her give you a blow job.
If you’d like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, try a classic butt plug which are one of the simplest options available on the market. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, its recommended to start small. You could also try a toy specifically designed for Prostrate Massage.
As with all sexual acts, remember lubricant, lubricant and more lubricant! There are many different types of lubes on the market. Usually, with anything anal, we suggest using a silicone lubricant or something designed specifically for anal desensitizing like Anal Eaze. If you do decide to use a toy and it is made of silicone, we suggest staying away from silicone lubricant as it can deteriorate the material of the toy. Try Pjur Back Door Water Based glide instead of the original Pjur Back Door Silicone glide.
We know that a number of you may not be immediately comfortable with this type of exploration – but just remember that it is perfectly acceptable and in no way strange! We see more and more men venturing into prostate play that find it amazing, and state that it leads to earth shattering orgasms! Plus, regular emptying of the prostate prevents prostate cancer. We encourage you to give it a try!
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